Dating Tips
There are very small chances that the success (and women) will come with no efforts. An elaborate plan will make things much better.

Where to meet a woman?
The best place to go is some female activities centre. Fitness clubs, yoga classes, dancing lessons, cooking lessons, coffee bars are often visited by women, and attractive ones!

To start a conversation
Think about it beforehand and invent some chic but simple phrases. Do not be obtrusive or cheesy. Women do not like it and can develop a prolonged feeling of disregard to you. To maintain the conversation ask her opinion on some points. She will appreciate it! Make her realize that she is interested in the conversation either.

Again, practice
Your first attempts may not be very easy and successful. But you can ensure the success by being prepared. Rehearse your words, think about what you will say, what you will wear and how you will behave in order to be sure and not to stumble at every word.

Regain confidence
You can’t do without confidence. Show the woman that you are confident in yourself, that you feel free while communicating with women. Some women prefer not to give a phone number immediately, but most feel normal to leave an e-mail. Ask her to write down the e-mail and ask to add a phone number just in case.

How to Flirt
Some people find it easy to flirt while others have difficulties in finding the proper words and responding to the women’s flirting. Flirts try to attract attention of other people. Good-natured flirt can’t harm anybody; vice versa the aim is to let other person feel good.
Women often use flirt to express their intentions. Verbal way is much easy to understand but do not hope that women will use it. You will have to learn how to understand their intentions reading through the lines, observing their movements.

If the woman does something of the following she is very likely to be attracted to you:

- She tries to move in the same way as you do
- She tries to copy you posture
- She constantly establishes eye-contact, tries to maintain the established contact, and gives you multiple gazes
- Batting of eyelashes is a good sign for you, especially when it is accompanied with blinking or even winking
- Smiles, especially teeth flashing ones can be treated in the same way
- She is licking her lips
- She is crossing and uncrossing your legs facing you
- She is thrusting your breast towards you
- She tries to touch in any possible way
- She laughs a lot. And don’t wonder why she laughs without any particular reason


When you receive these signals it’s the right time to respond to the flirting and to flirt in return. Show the woman that you’re interested in her or she may switch to another man.

What you can do:

- Be yourself, behave naturally
- Be relaxed and self-confident
- Be ready to maintain the conversation and to establish a contact
- Forget about the past. You are meeting a new woman and all the previous misfortunes must be forgotten.
- Don’t lie about your intentions.
- When you flatter her, tell the truth. Any woman has plenty of things to be complimented on.
- Smile a lot
- Listen to her and be attentive. Do not switch to other women.
- Discuss common interests
- Try to learn more about her life, her professions, about the things she is interested in.

What you must never do:

- Do not be obtrusive
- Do not paw her. The first meeting is not the right time to do it.
- Do not be numb during the conversation
- Do not blurt out a flow of useless stupid phrases without leaving her an opportunity to respond to your words
- Do not speak only about yourself and how glorious you are
- Do not fussy, rush or fidget
- Do not make her uncomfortable

Dating Tips

A Date! That’s exactly what you wanted to get! Now the thing is not to cancel out all your efforts behaving in a stupid way or saying unbearably awkward things.
The first step is to choose a dating place. Of course you’d better investigate in advance what kind of places she may like. Taking a woman who hates football to a football match means losing her and making a fool of yourself.

You can choose any of the following:

- A restaurant
- A coffee bar
- A caf?
- A cinema, theatre
- A night club
- A concert (classic music, jazz, comedy concert, etc)
- Disco
- Dancing party
- Picnic
- Drive to a beautiful place where you can enjoy a romantic view (lake, river, watching the sunset, etc)
- Roller skating
- Skiing, skating
- Horseback riding
- Sporting matches (if she is sporty and likes sport)
- Bowling
- A museum, exhibition, excursion
- A barbeque
- An amusement park

Dating Rules

- Be yourself! Act naturally
- Don’t shock her on your first date. She may not like hot Chinese cuisine or untraditional movies
- Prepare in advance: read some newspapers, watch the news. Now you will have some topics to discuss. But be careful that she finds the topics you discuss interesting.
- Remember about grooming! Clean teeth, nails, carefully brushed hair. You expect her to be beautiful? Make yourself attractive enough to please her. Her self-esteem will rise considerably when she realizes what a handsome and glorious man she is dating with.
- If the woman faces your bad breath and awful odor on the first date, she will come to a conclusion that you always smell awful.
- May be you won’t be extravagant if present her with a gift but she will certainly appreciate it. Choose something special if you know her good enough. In any case flowers are always welcomed.
- Don’t be late and don’t make her wait for you.
- Offer to pay for her and if she agrees go ahead.
- Humor will help you to avoid uncomfortable situations and show you great personality. - Listen to her attentively. Discuss the topics that she feels interested in. Don’t press her to admit your opinion. If you disagree on something you’d better not discuss it and leave till better times. Ask her questions and let her speak about herself, about her interests.
- Ask her for a dance. You can’t dance? Be so kinds as to learn some basic steps and movements. Women like dancing and like gentlemen who ask them for a dance.
- Compliment her on every possible thing but do not offend her mentioning something intimate.
- Be polite. Switch off the phone or if you need to make an urgent call explain the situation to her.
- Be romantic. Dining out, walking at the sunset and stuff like that will make her feel special.
- Don’t rush her. Do not propose to have sex with her just after the date. If you are attracted to each other you will get what you need sooner or later. Women do not like to be a one-day acquaintance.
- Let her know if you enjoy your time.
- If you liked the date and the woman say you will call her. But if you are not going to develop your relationships do not lie to her and do not promise anything. Be polite, say “Good night” or something pleasant and leave. In case you want more than the only date, ask her phone number (if you still do not have one) and promise to call her. Now the question: whether to kiss her or not. Some women find kissing after the first date acceptable and even normal. Others will be abused.
- If asked about the dates don’t lie. Do not tell about the things that didn’t happen. Do not criticize your woman. Somebody will retell your words to her anyway!

How to Make an Impression
Even if the woman does not tell you about her impression on you she will judge you. The first impression means a lot and determines your future relations.

So,
- Show your confidence. Women like independent and self-assured men.
- Be ready to protect her and do not ask for a protection. In other words do not whine.
- Jokes will make the things smooth. Your sense of humor will be appreciated.
- Hold her hand as often as you can. But remember about tact.

What does She Need?
Do not expect her say you in advance what she wants. She is looking for something and you should observe her behavior to understand it. But the majority of women look for the men who:

- Are confident
- Have a great smile and smile a lot
- Take care about their appearance and look good
- Do not lack humor and wit
- Are romantic and are able to appreciate emotions


A woman will definitely try to let your know that she is attracted to you. Pay closest attention to the following signals:

- She presents you with plenty of smiles and sometimes you do not understand why
- She leans forward in conversation and looks interested with what you are saying
- She softens her tone
- She crosses her legs facing you
- She tries to touch you and invents typical reasons (to brush something off of your jacket even if it is perfectly clean, she wants to get a closer look at your sleeve-button)
- She licks her lips
- She is trying to look her best; she wears perfect make-up and haircut. You can easily guess that she is interested in you. Don’t loose your time! Be perfect too. Show that you respond to her feelings. Let her notice your best points!